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SPRUNT, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?

No Man’s Sky is fantastic now.

comicallycluttered, do gaming w Weekly “What are you playing” Thread || Week of December 17th

Okay, I’m really enjoying Deathloop now. At first I wasn’t super feeling it, but as it went on, it seems to have become kind of like “Dishonored, but if it didn’t take itself seriously at all”.

Part immersive sim, part detective/puzzle game, part rogue-lite.

Has a lot in common with the Sexy Brutale as well, which is interesting, but plays very differently.

Weapons are fun and I love the '60s spy-fi vibe, so I’m enjoying it.

DroneRights,

Deathloop is fantastic. Colt and Julianna are brilliantly written and acted, they sell the game singlehandedly. The fact that the rest of it is awesome is just a bonus

jackpot, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?
@jackpot@lemmy.ml avatar

yeah java minecraft (NOT BEDROCK) is great, you can mod the shit out of it too on a pc.

RaoulDook,

You can get them both with the one license now, so you don’t have to pick. I like having the 2 options available and I don’t let my kids buy anything on the bedrock one where they have the Minecoin BS to buy stuff. They only have real money (paper) and no digital-compatible methods to pay for anything.

But the mods on Java edition are excellent, and the fact that it runs on any computer OS is a big plus. I can’t recommend anything more than Minecraft for a kids’ game.

DarkenLM,

I never understood the "Minecraft Bedrock was made so it could run everywhere" argument. Like, wasn't Java's moto "Write once, run everywhere"? Why settle for a garbage version of the original, when the original can run on every computational device made within the last decade?

ArcticAmphibian,

When Java was made, nobody guessed that a phone or console would ever be as powerful as a PC. “Everywhere” really meant “Everywhere powerful enough (just PCs).”

Could MC Java be ported to a phone? Yes, but C++ is just so much more efficient for a small device.

DarkenLM,

Well, considering most android apps are written in Java (mostly Kotlin, but it uses the JVM still), I guess it could.

However, Bedrock is vastly inferior in terms of quality, and performance is not an excuse for it.

realitista,
@realitista@lemmy.world avatar

How does this work? I have a Minecraft Bedrock license for my Playstation, can I somehow get a Minecraft Java license from this too?

RaoulDook,

You should be able to see the license in your Microsoft account. I think everyone got both licenses sometime earlier this year.

jackpot, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?
@jackpot@lemmy.ml avatar

your edit shouldnt be so aggressive, no one knew that and as we didnt know it wasnt judgemental to be mad

_ffiresticks_, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?

Deep rock galactic

Scary_le_Poo, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?
@Scary_le_Poo@beehaw.org avatar

Maybe introduce him to Beyond All Reason? It’s an RTS in the vein of Total Annihilation. Free and open source and very good looking.

WetBeardHairs,

Beyond All Reason

That game looks awesome. I need to check it out.

LENINSGHOSTFACEKILLA, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?
@LENINSGHOSTFACEKILLA@hexbear.net avatar

The Finals is fun and free. Apex Legends is cool too. A lot of shooting but no gore at all.

BingoBangoBongo,

The finals is also only voice chat and its opt in from the get go, so really good for avoiding toxic behavior from randos

pineapplelover, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?

All I’ve played is csgo growing up. Cool game

JamesConeZone, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?
@JamesConeZone@hexbear.net avatar

I banned my kid from Roblox… what next?

I would just talk to your kid and listen to his feelings and wants. What does he enjoy about Roblox? Can he find that enjoyment with some other games? Does he understand that its not a punishment, e.g. it’s not anything that he did and that you aren’t blaming him? Sure, you can suggest a few alternatives and they might take and be fun, but you’ll need to be attuned to his feelings around what he might see as a punishment for something that he did so that he doesn’t internalize it and hurt the relationship you have with him.

axont,

yeah this should be the immediate next step. The kid shouldn’t feel punished. It shouldn’t be a “you’re not allowed because I said so.” Kids can be smart and might be able to understand why Roblox is exploitative.

At least this is a better reason to take a way a kid’s video game. My parents banned me from certain games/movies because they had positive depictions of black people.

MrFunnyMoustache,

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  • axont,

    no, just very idiosyncratic white American racists. I don’t even know where they got it from. My grandparents weren’t racists and my parents never listened to Rush Limbaugh or anything.

    MrFunnyMoustache,

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  • axont,

    Nah, they don’t watch that either. They’re very detached and only watch football or movies with Humphrey Bogart. My best guess is they felt some kind of resentment their whole lives because they were always the poorest ones out of their siblings. All my aunts and uncles formed businesses or got moderately wealthy, whereas I grew up on the lower middle side of that spectrum. And that turned into standard American racism.

    CharadeYouAreNot,

    Watch professional sports where over half of the participants are not white. LMAO

    axont,

    Yeah and you wouldn’t believe how many slurs they scream during an average game

    beto,
    @beto@lemmy.studio avatar

    This is amazing advice! Saving it for when I have a kid.

    FIST_FILLET, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?

    minecraft, rocket league

    helpmyusernamewontfi,

    yeah just make sure text chat is disabled in rocket league

    (speaking from experience)

    FIST_FILLET,

    there’s something about those 1v1s that makes people go absolutely nuclear :’)

    clearleaf, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?

    Bible Adventures for NES

    pivot_root,

    Funny, but not a constructive answer. Props for not suggesting Custer’s Revenge at least.

    Perhapsjustsniffit, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?

    Games my kids enjoy without paying one cent…

    All the games they play

    We spend zero dollars on video games and yet our kids seem to play a lot of them, my wife and I don’t really play. They even had a friend give them an Xbox and there are computers and tablets and phones in our house. Games don’t have to be a money pit.

    jdf038, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?

    Games my kids and I enjoy on Steam:

    (Not Xbox sorry)

    • Alba (such a cute story)
    • FPS Chess
    • Dinkum
    • Webbd
    • Tinykin
    • Spiritfarer
    • Wobbly Life
    • LEGO adaptations of series
    • Among Us (canned chat only)
    cuchilloc, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?

    Spiderheck, should be cheap!

    GrayBackgroundMusic, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?

    fill an endless pit with fake money bought with real money.

    Honest question, if the money is the issue, then why not let him play the free stuff and not spend money on it?

    WetBeardHairs,

    I’m crumudgeony enough to remember when buying a game was buying a game. I disliked it when mobile games slowly changed into monitization via microtransactions. Heck, I remember buying games for full price and then they got changed to ftp overnight with mtx. That kind of stuff drove me nuts and I am firmly anti-mtx. That said, I let my kid earn money he can use on mtx for cosmetics and stuff on Fortnite. But it is a dedicated pool of money for mtx, his actual money kept separate so he can buy ice cream or save for bigger purchases without worry. Roblox on the other hand, is a company that exploits children for their labor to create the games and it hires psychologists to ensure kids dump as much money into it as possible all while having no moderation. Roblox is awful. Microtransactions in children’s games are harmful and exploitive. I’m letting my kid get a drip feed so he can get the little benefit from having non-stock costumes in fortnite while also having the learning experience that in games with mtx, you can never have enough - without him becoming a whale.

    rubikcuber, (edited )
    @rubikcuber@feddit.uk avatar

    I’ve recently banned my kid from playing it too. I had only just unlocked it for the first time. I had previously blocked it because it was, IMHO, terrible. As a professional gamedev I find it offensively bad. But I relented, because lots of his friends were playing it. However, and this may be the experiences he was playing, it seems to be almost exclusively training kids up for gambling. Pretty much everything is dopamine based rewards. It’s like a casino. It’s worst than I ever imagined. I’m this close to banning online play in Minecraft because he is similarly gravitating to the same sort of experiences. In our case it’s not about money, he hasn’t spent a cent on these things. But the content is very problematic, I have concerns that it is encouraging developing minds that gambling is the norm.

    WetBeardHairs,

    I’m not a gamedev, but I do software development and you really echo my distaste for roblox very succinctly.

    BleatingZombie,

    It’s also just an extremely dangerous platform. They have a stock market, game mode development with children employing children (clearly neither one understands employment laws), and unsurprisingly a ton of pedophiles

    unreasonabro,

    why let your child play shit games

    why not teach your child what good gaming can be

    why just not care what your child spends his time doing

    good grief

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