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jimbo, do gaming w Oh trust me. I know your frustration better than you do.

Who has the time to give a shit about this one way or the other?

soggy_kitty,

Yeah don’t lump me in with either of those two groups.

I don’t give a fuck

Aceticon,

I don’t give a fuck

Loved the asexual pun!

Aceticon, do gaming w Oh trust me. I know your frustration better than you do.

The closest to sexuallity the character I’m playing at the moment can get is necrophilia (gay, straight, group sex - up to the player really) and I need to abuse the engine a bit and use my imagination.

Granted, in single player Project Zomboid there aren’t any other living humans.

Drinvictus, do gaming w God I feel so bad for y'all

I don’t think Dota 2 is like this. At least not in NA. People just want mmr. They don’t give a shit about your gender lol

qooqie,

Yup I’ve had the same experience with Dota 2. I can’t speak for the super low behavior score crowd, but on the high end everyone’s pretty chill.

NIB,

I wanna believe things are getting better. I have had women speak in my dota games a few times recently and havent seen anything weird. Though to be fair, the average age of dota player is pretty high. so maybe this is why.

Drinvictus,

I think this is the main reason. Without googling anything I’d say the average age of a dota 2 player is at least 19 (if not more) compared to 14-15 for other games.

chicken,

I haven’t played for a couple years but from what I remember out of thousands of hours playing I only heard a woman speak a small handful of times, it was always very surprising

Drinvictus,

Oh I’m not saying a female player is common, all I’m saying is that people don’t treat them poorly. I have played with a girlfriend a couple of years ago and we had zero poor interactions. There are toxic people but they are toxic towards everyone. Nothing specific to female players.

chicken,

Yeah, I guess I just strongly suspect that most women avoid using voice chat if they play

ParsnipWitch,

DOTA 2 gave me a Stalker on Steam. Also a lot of inappropriate comments and insults. You also get automatically blamed more. I only play with friends now.

ParsnipWitch, do gaming w God I feel so bad for y'all

I used a voice modulator before I found my clan.

therealjcdenton, do gaming w God I feel so bad for y'all

Girl in my competitive TF2 lobby? Vote kick (for scamming)

uis,
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Intruder alert, girl in the lobby playing Pyro.

Guajojo, do gaming w Oh trust me. I know your frustration better than you do.

Am I supposed to be offended now because I had to play a RC car in ReVolt? Please… Games are about having fun, not to make a political statement

Meowoem,

I kinda like political statements in my games, and honestly I’m actually fine with fighting a meme war with the super-straights.

Admittedly I’m bi so can enjoy anything but I’m confident queers have enough creativity and talent to create some genuinely amazing narrative gaming experiences. we should be collaborating on open source homoerotic experiences and immersively gay open worlds in a way that puts the corporate friendly triple a studios to shame.

I haven’t been inside any triple a gaming studios but I’ve talked to a lot of catboys and daddydoms online who have decades of experience in the tech industry so I know we have the expertise and intelligence to make it happen if only we can as a community find the will.

ArcaneSlime,

I like political statements in my X sometimes, and sometimes I want to use my interest or hobby as an escape from all that shit explicitly. Neither is wrong imo, the only thing I don’t like is when they suddenly switch (most often an apolitical comic or band suddenly releasing a political issue or song, it’s usually not the other way around, and for some reason breaking my escapist immersion irks me more than a political comic suddenly doing some apolitical issue or artist/song), but of course it is their right to do so, as is my right to hold my opinion and not listen to the song or read the issue.

trigonated,

Funny thing about re-volt is that you really are playing as an rc car, not even a person piloting the rc car. Iirc from the lore the cars are sentient.

MotoAsh, do gaming w Oh trust me. I know your frustration better than you do.

Don’t call them gamers, that gives them credence and insults actual gamers. Call them what they are: insecure babies. There are many, many insecure babies with the exact same opinion that do not play games. They are worse than the gamer bros, because they’re out harassing people face to face.

The problem isn’t games or gamers or gamer culture. It’s ignorant bigots. (yes, I know it’s still fun to make fun of gamergate crap, that’s why I still upvoted the joke)

starman2112, (edited )
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The meme is drawing a difference between lowercase g gamers, who are normal people who play video games, and capital G Gamers™, who are insecure manchildren who tend to make up a vocal majority among gaming communities. If you disagree, spend some time in a CoD lobby, or on /v/, or in real life with men who spend their time playing video games. There are a lot more Azs than you think.

ThirdWorldOrder,

I really don’t see it much and I’ve been online gaming since the 90s. I think drawing attention to it like this meme creates more problems than it fixes.

Just ignore any trolls you come across. Don’t engage. The silence is more painful to the bigots than whatever logic or empathy you try to throw at them.

TopRamenBinLaden,

Same here. It’s most definitely gotten much better nowadays. There has definitely been a culture shift to where those kind of people stick to their own private discord calls now. The fact that almost every game has a report button for that kind of behavior has definitely helped.

MotoAsh,

“… or in real life around men who play video games.”

Yea, that’s me and all my friends, and we’re not toxic bigots. Thank you for proving that this spreads prejudice and not awareness.

starman2112,
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I shouldn’t have generalized it. Some groups are actually good. Many, many groups are not.

h3rm17,

No real scotsman!

TheGrandNagus,

Gamers™ and gamers are different things

Der_Gallier, do gaming w Oh trust me. I know your frustration better than you do.

What game is he talking about?

Anticorp, do gaming w I'm the fifth one. The One Who Stares.

The shut the game off and go get laid.

Kolanaki,
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Who wants to fuck a loser? /s

NotJustForMe, do gaming w Oh trust me. I know your frustration better than you do.

How about just playing the story as intended. Not everything has to be individualized.

CaptnNMorgan,

But this meme is specifically talking about ONE game where the main character is gay, most games aren’t individualized but some are and they’re usually straight while this one is potentially the only gay one and people that complain probably just shouldn’t play it

Kolanaki, do gaming w God I feel so bad for y'all
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Shit, my steam name was The Cool Side of the Pillow for over a decade and I didn’t even have to talk for people to assume I was a girl, for some reason.

mightyfoolish, do gaming w Oh trust me. I know your frustration better than you do.

This picture fits the comment so well. A calm person in a red flamboyant suit with makeup right next to an emotional but overall average person going on a rant. Well done.

Mongostein, do gaming w I'm the fifth one. The One Who Stares.

I put the controller down, drink some water, come back.

Kolanaki, do gaming w Oh trust me. I know your frustration better than you do.
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Are most video games protagonists straight? Cuz I have played way more games where the protagonist is mute and doesn’t show sexual interest in anything at all.

Like… Is Gordon Freeman straight? Doom guy? Kirby? Capt. Olimar? Red? The Prince of All Cosmos? 🤔

I’d say that video games have the most asexual representation of all forms of media.

Colour_me_triggered,

Kirby sucks like a nanny goat.

GladiusB,
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That statement has more to unpack than a therapist’s office in Trump tower

Catma,

The prince of all cosmos will fuck anyone who wishes to fuck him.

Thanks for coming to my Ted Talk.

NigelFrobisher, do gaming w Oh trust me. I know your frustration better than you do.

I can identify with Mario much better than these new “woke” characters because he has no discernible personality and nothing he does ever makes any difference to his world.

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