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OmegaMouse, do games w How do you moderate yourself?
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I agree with what others have said about gamifying life. For example, ‘oh it’s 5pm, I need to spend 30 minutes doing some tidying before I can play a game again’. And for games with no clear end point, set yourself goals so you know when to take a break. ‘Once I’ve built this factory, I need to take an hour’s break before I can play again’.

SamXavia,
@SamXavia@kbin.run avatar

@OmegaMouse It's actually what I've been trying out today, I didn't know that's what people meant by Gamify your life I more thought they were saying to give myself a score for doing tasks and stuff.

Currently doing play a game of CS2, if I win then I have less work to do but if I lose I have to do twice the amount of work and then I can go back on. This is almost like a reward / punishment system for myself to try and not only play the game (or not lol) and then just do the task. Once I have no tasks left I'm free to enjoy what ever game I like without worrying about they I got that thing to do.

I hope this could possibly work in the long run.

OmegaMouse,
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Yeah I guess that’s my take on ‘gamifying things’, but there’s probably a few different ways to do it. I’ve heard that in psychology, rewards are a lot more effective than punishments - so maybe frame it slightly differently. Personally I wouldn’t base things on how well you do in the game, because that could get frustrating - in the worst scenario you’ll already be annoyed at doing poorly in the game, and that’s followed by having to do more work. Instead I’d spin it, so if you do all the tidying reward yourself with an hour of gaming. If you get all your chores done, you get 2 hours of gaming etc.

SamXavia,
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@OmegaMouse I guess that could work, I would really just have to try which method would work for me in the end but I will hopefully get to the point I still get to enjoy the games I like as well as do the things I should / need to do.

CaptnNMorgan, do games w How do you moderate yourself?

If there is nothing I need to do that day, I don’t see a problem with playing for a long time

SamXavia,
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@CaptnNMorgan It's more the case of I end up using it to not do the things I should be.

CaptnNMorgan,

Then it’s the same as everything else, human up and get the things you need to do first. If you aren’t playing until after dinner, so be it.

SamXavia,
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@CaptnNMorgan At that point I don't eat, it's one of the reasons I've been trying a mix of work and gaming today as otherwise I will just not function

lolcatnip, do games w How do you moderate yourself?

Wait 10-20 years. Play games that are way too large and complex for your attention span. Build up such a huge Steam backlog that whenever you try to play a game, you feel guilty about all the ones you’re not playing. Play games that require reflexes better than the ones you have.

Using these tricks, I’ve cut my gaming time down almost to zero!

SamXavia,
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@lolcatnip That's pretty much how I've gained my gaming addiction, like there's way to many games to play ok back to the same game and for a really long time.

Fredselfish,
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Oh man you me. But when I want to play I just wait for weekend. Besides that I don’t have the time. My collecting gotten worse though thanks to Epic.

PeterPoopshit,

Yep. If you’re a teen and worrying about enjoying video games too much, just enjoy it while it lasts. There a lot of worse stuff you could be doing, like meth.

SamXavia,
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@PeterPoopshit Not a Teen Sadly, I'm 21 and need to better for myself.

PeterPoopshit, (edited )

When you’re 30, addicted to alcohol, have a shitty job and have a hard time enjoying anything anymore you’ll look back on these times with envy I promise. Being able to play video games all day and experiencing drug-use like fulfillment from it is a superhuman power in and of itself.

Stay away from alcohol and drugs for as long as you can.

SamXavia,
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@PeterPoopshit Don't worry I have parents that have experienced drugs and alcohol to the fullest so I stay away from them. The problem is that gaming for me is destructive especially for the possible future I could have with a career, worst case I hope I fall back into Video Games and just mindlessly play them, best case I actually do something with my life and make a difference at least from what I feel like I've done.

samus12345, do games w How do you moderate yourself?
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I’m glad they got rid of that huge light on the controller with the PS5.

Enzy, do games w How do you moderate yourself?

I don’t.

kttnpunk, do games w How do you moderate yourself?
@kttnpunk@lemmy.world avatar

How do you enjoy playing video games endlessly when life is passing you by, skills are going unlearnt and passions undiscovered?

SamXavia,
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@kttnpunk I think it's because I've had a lot of issues in my past and not many people want me around in life so that's a stuggle, So I end up doing the only thing that seems to want me, what is Video Games.

I have a passion in Video Editing that I'm trying to replace some of my Video Game habits with, my first day of attending to do some and then game for a round or so and then back to editing went pretty good, hopefully I can get to the stage I just work on projects instead of gaming all the time.

Boxtifer,

Video games are experiences. I feel like I live to experience different experiences. It’s all the sources of entertainment media and art all crafted in one experience.

Not learning some skill isn’t a big deal. There’s a number of skills I have developed but then dropped for several years. Only to come back and feel like I have to start from scratch again. You then learn that not all of your time needs to be devoted to a skill that has limited value in return.

Video games can also be a passion to some.

TORFdot0, do games w How do you moderate yourself?

Have children. You’ll be too tired to play more than 30 minutes a night

SamXavia,
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@TORFdot0 I know I hate myself but I really don't hate myself to go out of my way and have a child, also as a lesbian, no thank you.

Yokozuna, do games w How do you moderate yourself?

Best thing to do for me is to just look at the clock and set a time to get off, depending on the length I want to sit down it’s usually 1-3 hours. Usually when that time comes around I notice what I’m doing in game and realize without that time limiting I would probably stay on for way longer.

snownyte, do gaming w There needs to be more dedicated Gaming Subs
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Put it on the pile over there by "we need more niche communities but we don't have the user count".

ViscloReader, do games w Will more Studios end up releasing games on Fortnite?

“Every big game will turn into Roblox”

Someone

SamXavia,
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Yeah it does seem like big games are trying to turn into platforms, take Minecraft they are trying to make there own eco-system for game devs as well.

wolfshadowheart, do gaming w Will more studios end up releasing games on Fortnite?
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They definitely want that Roblox money

Macaroni_ninja, do games w Will more Studios end up releasing games on Fortnite?
@Macaroni_ninja@lemmy.world avatar

Until the next generation finds a new trending game Fortnite will be the go to gaming advertisement surface with endless crossovers, pop culture references, merch bait products and memes so the kids can be glued to the screens and make the parents spend money.

It’s a brilliant move to involve Lego as it’s widely popular, but I can’t see people using Fortnite as a sort of storefront/creation kit as it will probably have its limitation compared to a regular game purchased and played on its own.

ABCDE, do games w What are some helpful gaming websites you wish people knew?

hltb.com has been great for me, helps to decide which games to go for next when managing my busy schedule, and when I just want to finish something quickly one evening.

CrabAndBroom,

If you have a Steam Deck, there’s also a Decky plugin that integrates it right into Steam so you can see how long the game will take right from the launch page. That and the ProtonDB plugin that shows Linux compatibility are super handy.

Grangle1, do games w What are some helpful gaming websites you wish people knew?

Heard about one called Grouvee recently, it’s a site that can help manage your Steam library and backlog. The person who introduced me to it described it as “Goodreads for video games”. Steam already does a good job of keeping track of people’s libraries, but those who have a large library and backlog may find it useful.

CharlesReed, do games w What are some helpful gaming websites you wish people knew?

These are two that might be well known, but I don't really hear people talking about:

  • I use Map Genie quite a bit. It's just a bunch of interactive maps for a lot of different games, but it's really helpful when looking for that one item you're missing, or waypoints in general. It's mostly geared towards open world games.
  • I also use How Long To Beat if I looking to play a new game but don't really want to spend over a certain amount of hours playing. (Although I'm a bit of a slow player, so whatever completion times are listed I have to multiply by 2).

The other reference sites I use like NeoSeeker and Game FAQs are pretty well known and have been around for ages.

SamXavia,
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Both look like amazing websites for people to use, thanks for sharing

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