I very much agree with you. I cannot dedicate the time to playing a game that an 18 year old can dedicate. Even if I could, I'm not going to have the same speed. It's back to single player games, Civilization and Cities Skylines for me
I can't tell if I don't like Starfield, or playing games anymore. I got it on September 1st, and played it for a few hours that night. I played it for a couple hours the night after that, and then I played it for like 30 minutes yesterday. I haven't really been hardcore about any game since before the pandemic. It's not the same now that my gaming machine lives at the desk that is also my home office. I've typically wanted to just get out of this room when work is done, so a game has to be really good to keep me sitting here.