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  • stewsters,

    Roblox content generation is hella preditory though. Just make sure they know that they probably wont be able to get any real cash out.

    pivot_root,

    Just going to drop this here as something to watch for any people who may not believe you:

    youtube.com/watch?v=_gXlauRB1EQ

    Surp, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?

    Gary’s mod, Minecraft

    can,

    gmod is great. Another game with several other games inside.

    realitista,
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    Videos I look at seem rather violent with a lot of guns. Are these included by default or addons? My son’s 6 and just getting into minecraft but I don’t want to turn it into an FPS for him.

    Microw,

    Garry’s Mod includes various games/game modes but the most popular one is Trouble In Terrorist Town, where you have to shoot each other. I wouldn’t recommend it for a 6 year old, in a few years it will fit better.

    realitista,
    @realitista@lemmy.world avatar

    Thanks.

    toastal, (edited ) do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?

    Don’t do Minecraft when Minetest is open source. It’s not meant to be installed as vanilla per se tho as mods are for building gameplay and vanilla is just a sandbox/canvas to build Minecraft-like or addjacent games. Especially if you can get him on PC, I could be a hopskip away from creating his own open mods (as opposed to the content farm of underpaid “devs” for Roblox which have wild stories if you look it up).

    Veloran is also a good alternative for free software with an adventure MMO aspect that might appeal to the guy.

    Being projects without a profit motive & a strong community where the players are the developers is a safer route where you would never expect loot boxes, microtransacitions, dark/addictive patterns because those aren’t fun & money isn’t an incentive. With the source available your son is more than welcome to read it to figure out how games work, contribute ideas/code, & learn to make mods which are all great, real-life skills learned while accidentally gaming & trying to make the game better for yourself & friends—and if he’s not a future coder, there are assets & stories to build, or just playtesting a friend’s mod.

    haui_lemmy,

    Sound idea. Additionally, it’s now possible to stream games to the tv quite easily. So pc is really the better alternative to get away from psychological abuse through console and game manufacturers.

    Also, Minecraft on console is no better than roblox imo. It is a microtransaction pile of sh*t. You could argue that minecraft java works but I get the strong feeling that it wont stay like this forever since bedrock makes more money and allows for stronger manipulation through nonexistent mod support and everything is monetized there.

    toastal,

    If it’s set up correctly. The biggest selling point of a console is that it boots you to “play game” mode as the default & games have better expectations since the hardware is standardized. That said, in the case of Steam, there’s nothing to say you can’t install Linux & have it boot directly into Big Picture mode (but you’ll still need to remember to get software updates for the OS as they aren’t integrated like a console).

    haui_lemmy,

    Two things I see differently:

    • the hardware of a pc is standardized as well and the performance of a console is not better afaik
    • there is something called unattended upgrades for linux which takes that away as well. You also don’t ever need the newest version of linux
    toastal, (edited )

    I mean the IBM PC was standardized but you are welcome to install whatever video card or as much or little RAM as you want which means developers can’t specifically target your setup (with fewer testing Linux), but a lot of things not requiring the bleeding edge run just fine. Unattended upgrades is a good idea, but that is if the distro supports it—and that’s still a better experience than Microsoft Windows updates.

    haui_lemmy,

    Exactly.

    modcolocko,

    Minetest simply doesn’t have the content catalog of Minecraft, for a game that the appeal is the fact you can pretty much never get bored of it, that’s a massive drawback.

    toastal,

    Build it m8

    WetBeardHairs,

    We’re already firmly invested in minecraft. I have the java edition on my computers - and he has bedrock on the xbox. It sucks that they arent compatible, but he’s too young for a pc.

    arlaerion,

    Too young for a PC? My daughter got my old components with 8 years. Now with 10 years, playing Veloren, Minetest, Terraria and LotRO with me at her side on it…

    toastal,

    That’s adorable

    riseuppikmin,
    @riseuppikmin@hexbear.net avatar

    If you/the kids are playing vanilla look into Geyser as it allows Bedrock and Java players to play on the same server.

    WetBeardHairs,

    I had no idea that was possible. I’m looking into it now. Is it any good?

    riseuppikmin,
    @riseuppikmin@hexbear.net avatar

    I haven’t used it since the 1.16.5 days but it worked perfectly fine for vanilla back then and I’m sure it probably does now too.

    If you have more questions after you read a bit more about it feel free to drop them here.

    Tippon,
    @Tippon@lemmy.world avatar

    If you create a Java server, there are mods that let Bedrock players join. One is called Geyser, and I think the other is called Floodgate, but I’d need to double check.

    You can set up a free server online through Oracle too, and using the whitelist, you can make it private too. The article I used is here if you want to have a look

    …oracle.com/…/how-to-set-up-and-run-a-really-powe…

    Valkyronix, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?

    If shooters, beer visuals, and light swearing (think damn, shit, the voicelines are pretty rare and can be disabled with mods) are alright for your kid, check out deep rock galactic. its on steam as well as xbox, and is a 1-4 player coop mining and shooting game where you collect minerals and shoot the ant looking bugs trying to eat you. its incredibly fun and ive sunk over 2500 hours into it without feeling for even a second that any of it was predatory.

    Nacktmull,

    ROCK AND STONE!

    Xanis,

    Moreover, the community is absolutely fantastic. Literally just a bunch of half-drunk space dwarves having a good time.

    WetBeardHairs,

    Yeah that’s 100% going to be gifted to him and his social group for xmas due to the recommendations in this thread

    Deluge6062, do games w [SOLVED] Need help getting my dad to play Baldur's Gate 3

    If the issue is having to go through Steam to launch the game, then GOG would be the better alternative, as it gives you a DRM-free version of the game that can be installed and run without depending on them.

    b9chomps, do gaming w Updates regarding the IndieLand / The Completionist charity fraud allegations
    @b9chomps@beehaw.org avatar

    A lot of people here are bending over backwards to justify the behavior.

    They collected money for charity. Didn’t donate any of it for YEARS. Money that could have helped funding research.

    I don’t know US law, but I know that’s just wrong.

    KingThrillgore,
    @KingThrillgore@lemmy.ml avatar

    My understanding is that in both California, where IndieLand occurs, and in the US, holding the money without directing it per the objectives of the non profit is fraud.

    Jirard needed to lawyer and publicist up a month ago

    LassCalibur, do gaming w Looking for a rec: story oriented RPG with minimal focus on combat

    Isn’t combat just so boring? While none of the games you mentioned are familiar to me, story focused games are my main interest. My personal favorite is definitely The Wink and Kiss Part 2 for Neverwinter Nights. Its an adult romance damsel in distress bard’s tale in which there’s almost always a social solution. Whenever combat is apparently unavoidable even the nicest and most harmless character can prevail with the help of her friends! Still though, it is all based on the 3rd edition of DND, so don’t expect things to be easy!

    If an old DND game doesn’t interest you, then perhaps consider The Sims 1. Its one of the best selling role-playing games of all time. The Sims is just so awesome it doesn’t even need combat to be creepy, scary, and hard! Right now that’s the game capturing all of my spare time.

    There is also a really good visual-novel with enough different paths to cross over into similar territory: Cinders! Its a contemplative retelling of the Cinderella fairy tale which focuses on the player character’s own agency and freedom in an oppressive world. Perhaps its best described as being a game about the true meaning of freedom and independence.

    Since you’ve already received many excellent suggestions in this thread by now you hopefully won’t mind these more unusual options. Have fun with which ever game you choose and good luck!

    troyunrau,
    @troyunrau@lemmy.ca avatar

    I appreciate your suggestions and detailed reply. That mod looks spicy haha!

    The games I mentioned do have a significant combat elements in them - but the combat isn’t the reason I play them. I don’t mind combat provided that combat isn’t the whole focus, and that the difficulty can be turned down to “cheat mode” the combat and just get on with it. Hell, I’ll break them down, cause this thread has traction and maybe it’s interesting to you and others :)

    Chronotrigger is a SNES era Japanese RPG – lots of plot, story, time travel shenanigans, branching story with multiple endings, and also encounters with monsters which are handled with turn-based menu driven combat (so combat isn’t button mashing at all!). It’s old now, but still very good. My favourite trivial example of attention to detail, particularly in the context of time travel shenanigans: there’s a chest in a cave that you can access in multiple timelines – open the chest in the past, and it’ll be empty in the future; so open it in the future first, and then go back to the past and open it again and grab the contents twice! Etc. Here’s a classic bit: www.youtube.com/watch?v=8_JEhBGDsrY – minor spoilers.

    Tales of Symphonia is a GameCube era RPG – unfortunately it has real time combat, complete with button mashing – combat feels like an arcade. But on the easiest setting, you sort of let your AI-controlled companions manage the fight, and you can just mash one attack until combat is done. The rest of the game is mint though, with a lot of inter-NPC dialogue, exploration, a good story, good voice acting (for its era), etc. You have no idea how much time I spent finding recipes for cooking in this one while ignoring combat haha. Sample: www.youtube.com/watch?v=8tAYiO8NSLU

    The Witcher 3 is a semi-open world fantasy setting – third person view, swords and sorcery stuff. It has a big focus on monsters, so you do have to go out there and hunt them. But it’s not just random encounters. Each monster has a story, and a reason you’re hunting them. It’s probably the gold standard in open world exploration - or maybe it was before Baldur’s Gate 3. Since you recommended romance – there’s a bunch of endings with different partners – here’s one: www.youtube.com/watch?v=NQ_FkPNdNcs

    Outer Worlds is a first person shooter with exploration elements. On the easiest difficulty, the combat sort of slides off of you, and you can focus on the exploration side. It’s kind of a “ship and crew” feel that evokes Firefly (the TV show) where you go around collecting companions and solving the mystery of this corporate hellhole of a solar system. It’s well crafted and I hope there is more like this out there somewhere. It sort of scratches the Mass Effect itch, while being entirely different in story. Samples: www.youtube.com/watch?v=taHXNV7kFcE

    Mass Effect is a third person shooter with major RPG elements. Half the time you’re bombing around in your moon buggy looking for crashed satellites, or trying to romance the aliens you picked up, or trying to cure a plague or find out what happens if you endorse a product in a shop… In many ways, it set the gold standard for character oriented RPG interactions, with meaningful choices. Even the NPCs in the background are always having conversations that you just want to stop and listen to. For example: www.youtube.com/watch?v=hLpgxry542M

    There was a Mass Effect trilogy re-release recently, where they got updated to be able to be played on the current generation of platforms, so I replayed it. Combat in Mass Effect 1 is still boring, but I’m going to scan every planet for anomalies, and drive my little moonbuggy around doing jumps trying to unveil the map of each little area of interest, damnit! And Mass Effect 2 is such a great experience that even the combat is acceptable. I shot the “kid” in my replay of Mass Effect 3 and didn’t know they made that do a thing and was so pumped by getting an unexpected ending compared to my first playthrough years ago. Sample with combat, cutscene, romance: www.youtube.com/watch?v=E5gqrsFLhqo

    jackpot, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?
    @jackpot@lemmy.ml avatar

    yeah java minecraft (NOT BEDROCK) is great, you can mod the shit out of it too on a pc.

    RaoulDook,

    You can get them both with the one license now, so you don’t have to pick. I like having the 2 options available and I don’t let my kids buy anything on the bedrock one where they have the Minecoin BS to buy stuff. They only have real money (paper) and no digital-compatible methods to pay for anything.

    But the mods on Java edition are excellent, and the fact that it runs on any computer OS is a big plus. I can’t recommend anything more than Minecraft for a kids’ game.

    DarkenLM,

    I never understood the "Minecraft Bedrock was made so it could run everywhere" argument. Like, wasn't Java's moto "Write once, run everywhere"? Why settle for a garbage version of the original, when the original can run on every computational device made within the last decade?

    ArcticAmphibian,

    When Java was made, nobody guessed that a phone or console would ever be as powerful as a PC. “Everywhere” really meant “Everywhere powerful enough (just PCs).”

    Could MC Java be ported to a phone? Yes, but C++ is just so much more efficient for a small device.

    DarkenLM,

    Well, considering most android apps are written in Java (mostly Kotlin, but it uses the JVM still), I guess it could.

    However, Bedrock is vastly inferior in terms of quality, and performance is not an excuse for it.

    realitista,
    @realitista@lemmy.world avatar

    How does this work? I have a Minecraft Bedrock license for my Playstation, can I somehow get a Minecraft Java license from this too?

    RaoulDook,

    You should be able to see the license in your Microsoft account. I think everyone got both licenses sometime earlier this year.

    NaibofTabr, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?

    For everyone saying OP should let their kid play Roblox and just ban spending money… just no.

    Roblox exploits child labor for profit and they have terrible scummy business practices. If you have even marginal ethical qualms about child labor and/or capitalistic exploitation of vulnerable people, you should be keeping yourself and your family away from Roblox. In your mind they should be in the same category as multilevel marketing, crypto scams and door-to-door religion peddlers.

    WetBeardHairs,

    Roblox really is the lowest of the low.

    NaibofTabr,

    I actually think it’s fair to call them child predators. They’re exploiting kids for money instead of sexual gratification, but it’s the same power dynamic. Child exploitation is their business model.

    Omega_Haxors,

    A lot of sexual child exploitation goes down there too, so you don’t even need a roundabout definition of child abuse.

    nilloc,

    My son just turned 6 and I was thinking of looking at the game (my sone really likes actual Lego, and his buddies are into Minecraft and Roblox), but another parent at a bday party a few weeks back asked if we played, and then warned my that I needed to keep a close eye on it, because the suggested games algo was pushing really sketch things to his daughter.

    So I started looking and decided the shopping aspect was something I didn’t want to expose him to yet. But these revelations are making me glad we haven’t yet used it and never will.

    piyuv,

    Do you have written sources for these? I’d like to educate myself but I can’t stand YouTube videos.

    ferralcat,

    This guy’s argument would literally be that Mario maker is encouraging child labor because it doesn’t pay kids who make levels in it.

    ZeroHora,
    @ZeroHora@lemmy.ml avatar

    Roblox sells the idea that you can actually make money with it, it has its own economy with job hunting and salaries. Mario Maker is just a community game.

    ICastFist,
    @ICastFist@programming.dev avatar

    That’s an entirely different thing, because Mario Maker doesn’t lure anyone with the bait of financial gain.

    clearleaf,

    That’s horrible. These 10 year olds are learning programming and game design skills for nothing. Good thing THAT was nipped in the bud.

    NaibofTabr,

    This is addressed directly in the linked videos. Development for Roblox doesn’t translate outside of Roblox.

    ICastFist,
    @ICastFist@programming.dev avatar

    Nearly everyone knows a bunch of skills “for nothing” or, worse, for fun! Gasp! Shocking, isn’t it?

    Also, did you know that modding is a thing at least since the 90s? You know, people that made modifications to games without expecting any financial return or job opportunities? People must be crazy if they’re putting so much effort just to have fun and share it, amirite?

    clearleaf,

    I couldn’t stop myself from being sarcastic there, sorry. The utter cynicism struck me so hard I didn’t know where to begin explaining how wrongheaded I think people are being about that. I would for sure prefer Roblox not encourage mtx so much but sheesh man. I don’t think Timmy is trying to make the next Genshin Impact.

    NaibofTabr,

    Intent makes a big difference. The value of Roblox as a platform and as a business is based on the work done by children to develop for it, and it was set up that way on purpose. They created an incentive model to encourage it.

    Nintendo’s value as a company is not based on kids creating Mario Maker levels, nor does Nintendo push kids to do so with the promise of earning money.

    GalaxyBrain,
    @GalaxyBrain@hexbear.net avatar

    Considering the newest Mario game got a shitload of ideas from Mario maker levels, anyone who was good at mario making enough to be creative with the formula had their labor stolen as RnD for Wonder

    AOCapitulator,
    @AOCapitulator@hexbear.net avatar

    it would be if the word literally meant figuratively or mario maker psychologically tortured children into spending cash for the privilege

    LemmyIsFantastic,

    This guy’s video could just as well be about foss development. Nearly every point has a direct parallel.

    NaibofTabr,

    Nobody dangles a carrot of earning money in front of potential FOSS developers. Nobody goes into FOSS thinking they’re going to get a big payout.

    FOSS is not pay-to-play. There’s no equivalent to Robux for FOSS developers.

    FOSS developers are consenting adults who volunteer their time for freely distributed software projects, not kids creating content for a video game company that charges them for access and then makes a profit from their work.

    smort, do games w [SOLVED] Need help getting my dad to play Baldur's Gate 3
    @smort@lemmy.world avatar

    Email GOG and ask them whether their version of BG3 works on Mac? If it ends up not working, you have a solid case for a refund

    I know Steam would be ideal, but sometimes you just have to meet somebody where they are

    jmchrist,

    Someone else in this thread mentioned the GOG version works on Mac, although I can’t see anything about it working on ARM, but I’d assume it does since it says it works on OSX 12+.

    I’ve tried getting him into Steam, but he has some sort of grudge against it, idk why. Thanks for the suggestion!

    ABCDE,
    HeartyBeast,
    @HeartyBeast@kbin.social avatar

    Yeh it works on M1 Macs.

    stagen, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?
    @stagen@feddit.dk avatar

    I recommend Astroneer - a solo / multiplayer survival game about collecting resources, refining stuff and building up bases on several planets. It’s hecking fun in multiplayer and it doesn’t have combat. There’s a ton of things to do and if the kids are good at communicating with each other they can quickly conquer the game. The only microtransactiony stuff it has is cosmetics (but it’s not being pushed upon you in any way), but you can unlock some of these through progression as well.

    HerbalGamer, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?
    @HerbalGamer@sh.itjust.works avatar

    Just rediscovered Battlefield Heroes through the fanmade Rising Hub.
    Pretty sure it’s the perfect kinda game for a group of 10 year olds to play and socialize on.

    FIST_FILLET, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?

    minecraft, rocket league

    helpmyusernamewontfi,

    yeah just make sure text chat is disabled in rocket league

    (speaking from experience)

    FIST_FILLET,

    there’s something about those 1v1s that makes people go absolutely nuclear :’)

    PunnyName, do games w [SOLVED] Need help getting my dad to play Baldur's Gate 3

    Buy another copy from wherever you want, then pirate the FitGirl repack, install and play that.

    jmchrist,

    Lol, that would work for me or my friends, but I think giving him a pirated version might make him even more sketched out. Thanks for the idea, though!

    ABCDE,

    I think they only have the Windows version.

    fishos, do games w [SOLVED] Need help getting my dad to play Baldur's Gate 3
    @fishos@lemmy.world avatar

    I mean, if credit card is the issue, you can buy steam gift cards with cash at most game/electronics stores. I know this will depend on your region, but he can absolutely have a steam account with no card attached. I sometimes delete my debit card info by accident trying to use a different card and have to readd the card entirely. There’s been plenty of times my steam account has had no payment method.

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