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popcap200, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?

I’m still confused as to why you guys don’t just ban the spending of money on micro transactions and not the game itself? Every game is jam PACKED with mtx these days, from CoD to Fortnite to Forza.

JamesBean,
@JamesBean@kbin.social avatar

Every *multiplayer game

I play about a hundred games a year, and haven't opened a game with microtransactions in about half a decade.

Carnelian,

My squad has been addicted to Phasmophobia since Halloween, no microtransactions in sight!

WetBeardHairs,

Lol I think survival horror might be a few years too early for him and his cohorts

Carnelian,

It builds character! Lol but, yeah phasmo is too intense for many of my adult friends, even.

Out of curiosity, do you generally know what he was doing on Roblox? I’ve heard of several horror games being remade within Roblox, such as Iron Lung. I’ve wondered what the limitations are. I definitely remember stumbling into some intense things when I was around that age, but the landscape is so different now

WetBeardHairs,

He was wasting time playing shitty games because his other friends played those same shitty games. I was taken aback at how mind numbingly shitty those games were. We were in the same room as an Xbox with gamepass and a Nintendo Switch and he chose to play some seriously bad games instead because his friend was addicted to it. Then he became addicted to it. Luckily, that whole friends group will now have much, much better games to play.

WetBeardHairs,

Personally, I want my kid to be able to buy a few things every now and then. Roblox got the axe for multiple reasons - mtx was only one aspect. He gets a vbuck or two with his allowance if he wants to earn them. It helps him get a healthy view of how little mtx are really worth, but a cosmetic here or there is kind of fun.

popcap200,

Oh duh. Also, I forgot you said it was because you didn’t feel the gameplay/game itself was quality enough, which is fair enough, but I’m not too familiar with Roblox as I’ve never played it.

the16bitgamer,
@the16bitgamer@lemmy.world avatar

peer pressure. I fell for it in my TF2 days in high school. A buck there a few bucks there, all for a hat with particle effects that I never got. All because one of my friends I was playing with had one, and I wanted one too.

I learned a valuable lesson, but I was also 15/16 and had the ability of self reflection (and wanting to get Skyrim for $5 instead of a key). Can’t expect this level of self control from most teenagers, let alone a 10 year old.

moody,

Roblox is well-known for predatory practices aimed at children, and predatory behavior from other users who may or may not be looking for children to abuse.

Banning Roblox entirely seems like a very reasonable thing to do IMO.

Telorand, do gaming w Looking for a rec: story oriented RPG with minimal focus on combat

Moonring has been really fun, and it’s free! Not F2P, just free. The developer made it as a passion project, and it’s easily worth $10, imo. Lots of reading.

It’s akin to an old NES or early 90s PC game with the polish and applied game theory of modern times.

averyminya,

Moonring is made by a dev of Fable right?

Telorand,

Yep, one of the co-creators. Has a website that he hasn’t updated in a year or two that’s geared towards teaching people programming, so seems like a pretty cool guy!

averyminya,

Yeah he’s a good one. Left the studio over his convictions, can’t get much better than that.

Except of course when you follow up with what you mentioned - didn’t know that part. Even more awesome than I thought!

msmc101, do gaming w Looking for a rec: story oriented RPG with minimal focus on combat

Cyberpunk now that it’s been updated. It has combat but is not combat focused. I’d drop it to easy and just play it for the story tbh.

troyunrau,
@troyunrau@lemmy.ca avatar

Been through it, although not since the last update or two. Don’t really want to restart it. Also wish it wasn’t first person :)

ElusiveClarity, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?

My brother and I started playing Grounded together as a way to just chill and catch up throughout the week. We were shocked with how much content was actually in the game. It’s like Valheim mixed with Honey I Shrunk The Kids, 4 player online coop, base building, survival. It has a storyline so there’s always a sense of direction and it syncs the world with everyone regardless of who plays so it’s easy to just come and go. I could definitely see a group of 10 year olds getting sucked into this.

WetBeardHairs,

Oh that looks really good. Thanks for the recommendation.

Daryl76679, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?

Besides the obvious Minecraft recommendation, maybe Terraria, Satisfactory, and if you’re willing to allow it, something like Smite would be another good option for him to play with his friends.

JamesBean, (edited ) do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?
@JamesBean@kbin.social avatar

At that age, maybe Among Us or Minecraft?

WetBeardHairs,

Those are already commonly played by him and his friends, so you were right to suggest them.

magnetosphere,
@magnetosphere@kbin.social avatar

For a second I confused Among Us with The Last of Us. I thought that was a pretty messed up suggestion for a little kid lol

Kory, do gaming w Whats a game that everybody seems to love that you cant stand for one reason or another?
@Kory@lemmy.ml avatar

Stardew Valley. I don’t find it relaxing at all but a chore and stressful due to the day/night cycle. I feel like Terraria is handling day/night much better.

sydneybrokeit,

Yep. I love planting things, harvesting them… I want Stardew Valley without the time management stuff.

asqapro,

If you’re on PC, there’s mods to help with the time (even stopping it altogether). I haven’t tried them out myself, but this mod would solve the time management issue: www.nexusmods.com/stardewvalley/mods/169

sydneybrokeit,

Yeah, I’ve tried those out before. It tends to make the game feel weird, if that makes sense? Like, everything is still expecting time to progress.

Really, I want a game like Stardew, but without the hard timeline baked in from the start.

FigMcLargeHuge, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?

Definitely have to get him Valheim, and they have an Xbox version now. Also, not multiplayer, but Kerbal Space Program is pretty fun. I have only played the PC version though, so can’t speak to the console version.

WetBeardHairs,

Oh I forgot valheim was multiplayer. Thanks. He even played it for a little while so I’ll have to get that one going again

bermuda, do gaming w Looking for a rec: story oriented RPG with minimal focus on combat

Disco Elysium

mp3, (edited ) do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?
@mp3@lemmy.ca avatar

My oldest kid (6yo) is currently having fun with Goat Simulator ¯_(ツ)_/¯ and yes, I bought the expansions.

He doesn’t play online yet, but I have Minecraft on the PS4 so that may be an option later on.

Other options I can think of that would be appropriate and multiplayer

  • Rocket League
  • Fall Guys
  • Party Animals
  • Portal 2
  • Astroneer
  • Human Fall Flat
the16bitgamer, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?
@the16bitgamer@lemmy.world avatar

What might be a good idea is to try Game Pass for a few months and see what they settle on. Then for Birthdays or Christmas, get them the games they played the most. Not sure how parental controls are like on it, but I hope they exists.

That being said, outside of Nintendo, there aren’t many Online games which don’t demand their users to pay for cosmetics with fake in game currency. See CTR Nitro Fuelled, Fortnight, Call of Duty, Overwatch and Minecraft skins.

With that said if changing your system isn’t an option, Minecraft Bedrock Edition the only game I am familiar with. There is a skin store, but you can’t earn in game currency from just playing (from my knowledge). So if they don’t have access to the credit card, they won’t be tempted, plus the base game has enough options that you can customize your character well enough.

If you can get a switch (and friends have one already), Splatoon 2/3, Mario Kart 8, and Animal Crossing are all friendly non-microtransaction laden games.

WetBeardHairs,

Has Nintendo made their online system any less crappy lately? Do they have voice chat or is it still “Use discord”? I say this as a lifetime player of Nintendo games. In the meantime, I’ve got like 3 years of Game Pass because I did the xbox live upgrade to get it for cheap.

JungleJim,

As a diehard Nintendo fan, not really

WetBeardHairs,

Dangit, Nintendo.

the16bitgamer,
@the16bitgamer@lemmy.world avatar

Technically you can voice chat with friends over discord the Nintendo Switch online app.

But yeah I use anything that isn’t their service for voice chat.

WetBeardHairs,

Seems like it would be hard to use a wired headset to listen to the game sounds/music and voicechat at the same time.

Kyatto,
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YtA4QCam2A9j7EfTgHrH, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?

Sniper Elite Five is fun. It only has gore when you are shooting Nazis and it is always morally good to shoot Nazis.

WetBeardHairs,

Shooting nazis is acceptable. I’ll get him Wolfenstein one of these days when he’s a little older.

averyminya, do gaming w Looking for a rec: story oriented RPG with minimal focus on combat

Void Terrarium is quite cute, I don’t know how combat heavy it gets later in the game though.

Lunar, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?

No Man’s Sky?

WetBeardHairs,

We actually tried it on gamepass and my son was only kind of interested. Thanks for the recommendation though

Tb0n3, do gaming w I banned my kid from Roblox.... what next?

Roblox is full of different kinds of games, right? Why don’t you find out the kinds of games he likes there and find recommendations based on that? It’s a start at least. I would imagine most of the Roblox games are clones of better games anyway.

WetBeardHairs,

He and his entire friends group on roblox got banned from it in a single day. We’re trying to not be jerks by providing a better game to replace it with. But from what I saw - he was playing some game where he stands there and pokes at a robot that gets bigger while things around it die. Not very stimulating.

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